Everyone wants to be the best they can be in bed when it comes to sex. Who doesn’t get off on giving their partner an orgasm? Sometimes just the feeling of knowing you can make her orgasm, can easily push you over the edge!
Now, let’s start off by saying that not every woman is the same. In fact, every woman is quite different in what might turn her on but there is some common ground for us guys to work with.
The last thing you want to be is a selfish lover. This is a sure way to make sure she will not want to sleep with you again!
Different Kinds of Orgasm
There are 2 main types of orgasms for a woman. Clitoral and Vaginal. Research shows that most women reach orgasm during intercourse when clitoral stimulation is part of the fun. This might be rubbing her clitoris while having intercourse or giving her oral sex before intercourse. A combination of both of these can have a dramatic affect on her ability to orgasm during sex and lead to some very erotic foreplay too!
1. Smell Fantastic
When it comes to sex, smell is the strongest of her five senses to get her juices flowing. Make sure it is a manly smell such as a musky cologne such as: L’HOMME COLOGNE CEDRAT EAU DE TOILETTE (Currently My Favorite). A musky smell to her can mimic the scent of testosterone and really get her libido going. As soon as she gets a whiff of you, she wont be able to resist. This fragrance below is a new classic from L’Occitane. Woman love it!
2. Get Familiar With The Clitoris
If you were trying to find the clit back in 1972 and you happened to see the movie “Deep Throat” then you might even think her clitoris was in the back of her throat (laughs). Thanks to the internet and the abundance of information, its pretty easy to find the clitoris these days. The reality is guys most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. When it’s time to get freaky, make sure you spend as much time as possible stimulating her clit.
3. Learn What She Likes
How can you find out what she likes?? Just ask!! Many guys feel the need to be so macho and have the mentality they can “figure it out” or just “wing it” and completely fail to just find out before sex what she likes in bed. Another way to find out what she likes? Let her take over in bed. If she wants to be on top, go with it. If you are giving her oral sex and she is squirming and moving her body, lick and kiss her where she is guiding you. Do what you need to do to make her orgasm!
4. Make Sure You Can Last Long Enough
There are no hard and fast rules about how long you need to last in bed, in order to make a woman orgasm. But, every woman is different and need more time / stimulation that others. This really harkens back to asking her what she likes, before sleeping with her, so you know how long you will need to last. Here are some great tips to make sure you last long enough.
5. Use Sex Toys
If you have tried the above and are still having a hard time making her orgasm, don’t be afraid to get toys involved! Toys like the Fun Factory Stronic Surf Pulsator are sure to get her off in a hurry! Don’t feel less manly about it either! You are going to be giving her massive pleasure and taking part in the fun as well. Its nothing to be ashamed of and in fact, can be a lot of fun! Here are some fun ones below to get you started.
Get To Work!
Start trying out these 4 tips to make her orgasm every time tonight! There are countless ways to give her the big O but this is certainly a good start. For more tips on having great sex and making her cum, visit my friend Alex Allman’s page to dive even deeper in to your orgasm conquest.
Some Toys to Help Get The Job Done
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